Sunday 14 February 2010

Dating Confidence - Bringing your A-Game

I'm not suggesting that you plead to be smacked top of the head with the ugly crossbar, so that you move on with your life, no matter how you look like. Welcome the ride to your favorite restaurant with the oh-so-gorgeous colleague from your department who you never thought would invite you out - put aside your worry on the reason he'd ask you for company. Make the first move on the amazing lady you'd desperately like to get to know. Or at the minimum say "hi" to the woman you meet weekly at the bus stop. Smart people do the best they are capable of with thing they've got, and they don't complain too much in the process. Confidence is the capacity to depend on yourself and bring out that character to others, and physical apperance is half the battle. When you need to project confident irregard of you are really confident or otherwise, attempt the following:

Stand up rod straight. An erect spine describes goal conscious and intensity (spineless means fearful, after all). Look up.

Not only is a smile a super magnet to the slings and arrows of outrageous wealth, but it also convinces those around you you're happy and radiant and alert. A long face makes you look like you're troubled or fearful.

Make eye contact. It's all in the eyes. Demonstrating that you're not fearful to meet someone in the eye illustrate that you're worthwhile and honest and willing to meet their inspection.

Mothers always is well aware of that when she demanded, "Look me in the eye and tell me you were studying."

Tilt a little forward. Regardless you're on your feet or sitting, leaning forward comapring with drawing back transmits liveliness and forthrightness - and that means the steel within and coorperation. It also lets your energy move forward. Tilting forward is a bit aggressive or at the minimum dynamic instead of protective or defiant.

Shake hands positively (yeah, women, also). At the time of getting into a new situation, moving confidently into someone else's space and offering out your hand and firmly - not squeezing hard nor too soft - volunteering a portion of yourself in a warm but assured approach tells gobs and gobs of goodwill about you:
You're not fearful, you're an worthy, you're friendly, you're open.

C. Blevins

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